deadass thought he was gunna confirm phan and nearly spat out my tea when he said sex

actually really loved it though, 85% of the time I cringe at dinof vids but I really related to this and liked the dan we saw in it, good job danny boy

I love the fact that Dan's idea of an avocado is Antoni Porowski from Queer Eye

Literally the only thing I got from this video was dan talking about Phils penis. That is all, I cannot remember one single other thing about it, he could have declared nuclear war on Russia and I would not have noticed I was that shook about him talking about PHILS PENIS. Anyway, that’s all. Phils penis.

Kathrynxjane wrote: Sat Mar 03, 2018 9:27 pm Well I am shook. I am sorry but unless Dan has a non disclosure agreement with random strangers that he is having sex with, he can only be talking about Phil.

No clue what else he was talking about after that but that is all I can think about.

Well I mean Phil did like the video on twitter so....

ummmm I need to watch this a couple more times, but it sounded like a fairly explicit acknowledgment of male attraction? My mouth opened a little, lol not quite what I was expecting from this video if this is him being more open I like it, god I love him so much.

I'm glad he's feeling more comfortable expressing himself (2018 is looking up! ) this was a great vid, a little vague at times but funny and honest worth the wait, even if it was a bit short!

i'm glad dan's being more open about his mental health and apparently also sexuality too - every time he mentions sex in a video i remember how rarely it's a topic he brings up, especially when it's very explicitly male attraction.

good video

Kathrynxjane wrote: Sat Mar 03, 2018 9:27 pm Well I am shook. I am sorry but unless Dan has a non disclosure agreement with random strangers that he is having sex with, he can only be talking about Phil.

No clue what else he was talking about after that but that is all I can think about.

my first reaction to that line, honestly. i'm interested to see what this means in terms of his content-- he was so vague it's difficult to know. i'd like to think that him being so open about the queer content he's been enjoying is part of it (although i feel like that's been a steadily building trend for a while now). i liked the video, and i'm always up for dan being self-reflective, but i really want his next one to be a storytelling/sketch type video. i miss those.

RachelPhan wrote: Sat Mar 03, 2018 9:31 pm Literally the only thing I got from this video was dan talking about Phils penis. That is all, I cannot remember one single other thing about it, he could have declared nuclear war on Russia and I would not have noticed I was that shook about him talking about PHILS PENIS. Anyway, that’s all. Phils penis.

I feel exactly the same way ahah. As soon as the video finished I was like: "What did I just watch?" I really need to watch it again because that was so distracting...

"laughter, food and sex" - new thread title please! Not watched it properly yet (husband watching a film sat next to me so had to watch it muted with subtitles) but I think I got the gist...

did I take a fucking hallucinogenic or did Dan make a joke about sucking dick

this... this was the most cryptic, depressive yet hopeful coming out video i have ever seen. am i having a stroke?

Dan did that. He basically confirmed in a video that he's having Sex on a regular basis and that he also really likes to give blowjobs.
I'm just so proud of him, he came so far and he's become so open and so much more comfortable with himself, both in regards of mental health and sexuality it's so beautiful to witness.
(Also I deadass thought "Is this the moment? Is Dan ready to officially come out of the closet?" when I saw the title and then he started talking about Sex in present tense and despite my initial reaction to the title i did NOT expect that.)

I need to watch the video a couple more times but...wow.

I'm not sure what category to put this type of video in, but it definitely suits Dan

alittledizzy wrote: Sat Mar 03, 2018 9:27 pm I'm gonna be really interested to see how people unpack this video. I think I want to refrain from saying how I feel until I've watched it back a couple times.

But I will comment on the obvious: Dan definitely wanted to make sure that we know he's got a sex life and that it involves a dick in his mouth.

Exactly the same as I was just about to post! I just watched it twice and contemplating life is an understatement of a dense topic but damn that was very specific.
LOVED the editing, a very quick-fire comedy style.

sparkle wrote: Sat Mar 03, 2018 9:37 pm did I take a fucking hallucinogenic or did Dan make a joke about sucking dick

twice.

i’m gonna need a minute to process that entire video. it’s like memeing of life on drugs.

Ribona wrote: Sat Mar 03, 2018 9:31 pm I love the fact that Dan's idea of an avocado is Antoni Porowski from Queer Eye

Ooooh, that is why he looked vaguely familiar. I am terribly with recognizing faces.

so_cheesy wrote: Sat Mar 03, 2018 9:38 pm this... this was the most cryptic, depressive yet hopeful coming out video i have ever seen. am i having a stroke?

It's weird calling it a "Coming Out" video, yet this description works for me. The only not-vague thing in that video was the multiple (gay) sex mentions.

Also (since I haven't seen it mentioned yet), credit to Dan for that cereal raspberry clown thing. That was pretty damn creative and unexpected.

sparkle wrote: Sat Mar 03, 2018 9:37 pm did I take a fucking hallucinogenic or did Dan make a joke about sucking dick

Didn't he make two jokes about sucking dick?

The excitment of that and the titillation of whether he'd reveal it was Phil's dick were real--but I was left wanting to hear more about what small steps he was taking to live his truth.

(But I love Dan anyway. )

I was already in bed reading when the video dropped, but now I definitely can't sleep yet because I've got an image of Dan "having things in his mouth" stuck in my head.

jeez Dan, we get it, you suck dick

But on a real note, I enjoyed the video! It felt very sincere which made it a joy to listen to. it was short and sweet and reminded me of just how fond I am of Dan

Ribona wrote: Sat Mar 03, 2018 9:31 pm I love the fact that Dan's idea of an avocado is Antoni Porowski from Queer Eye

Yeah I love that too

lost686girl wrote: Sat Mar 03, 2018 9:22 pm well. that was super gay.

Agreed.

Honestly, this video was super vague, but it might've been more vague for me because I kept expecting him to go "so, while we're on the topic of living my truth, let me get this out of the way" and then finally confirm, idk, something? Being gay, bi, dating phil, dating anyone else, just. Anything. It just felt to me like he was constantly on the verge of saying something important and then backing away again. I know there's all the sucking dick jokes (which I suppose is something at least) but I kept expecting him to full out say 'I'm gay' or whatever.

I'm going to need to rewatch it now that the shock value is gone and I can actually pay more attention to what he's saying.

Still. Super gay. Holy fuck.

I'm so shook, I have no words to describe my reactions to the video despite something between giggling and staring at a wall with my eyes bugged out of my head

LtrllySusan wrote: Sat Mar 03, 2018 9:44 pm
Also (since I haven't seen it mentioned yet), credit to Dan for that cereal raspberry clown thing. That was pretty damn creative and unexpected.

That was honestly my favorite part of the video!

dan: i suck dick
me: I LOVE THIS SONG!!!!!

I need to say that I find it annoying or something else on a level I don't even have words for that it takes (relatively) explicit references to sex including another person's dick to make people think 'oh so he was serious this whole time' - all the other things weren't enough? Including dudes in his Tinder vid and years of (relatively) less explicit mentions of dudes wasn't enough? He needs to say 'I love dick in my mouth' for people to maybe finally accept 'oh he likes dick' - I mean if spelling that out is him living his truth, GO DAN, but omg I'm already tired at everything.

dreamerxnheaven wrote: Sat Mar 03, 2018 9:40 pm (Also I deadass thought "Is this the moment? Is Dan ready to officially come out of the closet?" when I saw the title and then he started talking about Sex in present tense and despite my initial reaction to the title i did NOT expect that.)

I mean. what is this. Maybe living his truth is just continuing to reject people shoving him in a fucking closet against his will even now after all these years with some firmer language. Whatever, bye.

lefthandedism wrote: Sat Mar 03, 2018 9:44 pm Didn't he make two jokes about sucking dick?

The excitment of that and the titillation of whether he'd reveal it was Phil's dick were real--but I was left wanting to hear more about what small steps he was taking to live his truth.

(But I love Dan anyway. )

I'm genuinely amazed that the only clarification needed is who the dick is attached to

(also I feel like this is video going to inspire me to go book my next tattoo because fuck it, i've wanted it for years and I already have 3 whats the worst that could happen)

rizzo wrote: Sat Mar 03, 2018 9:43 pm

sparkle wrote: Sat Mar 03, 2018 9:37 pm did I take a fucking hallucinogenic or did Dan make a joke about sucking dick

twice.

i’m gonna need a minute to process that entire video. it’s like memeing of life on drugs.

and on this day, we were truly blessed