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jesp · Sun Aug 13, 2017 5:12 pm

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We have been informed that longtime forum member sweetmm passed away in late June this year after a short battle with an illness.

Her presence and her contributions to our little community will be sorely missed, and our thoughts go out to her family and friends.
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missemma · Sun Aug 13, 2017 5:20 pm

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rip sweetmm - one of the first people I spoke to when I got into Dan and Phil.
cancer truly sucks and I'm sorry you had to fight it :(
sleep well :( whenever I see this clip from the Face Swap video it will make me think of you.

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spider · Sun Aug 13, 2017 5:43 pm

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It's funny how you can know someone for years but not really know their life or struggles. In that way we didn't really know each other but we knew we all shared the same love for these silly Youtubers and it was a privilege to know you through them. Thanks for the bants. Will think of you whenever I see ;) around internet land. Rest in peace, love.

pastelspectre · Sun Aug 13, 2017 5:48 pm

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oh wow..that's awful. i didn't know her that well but i did appreciate her posts. rest in peace, sweetmm. you will be missed.
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majitzu · Sun Aug 13, 2017 5:48 pm

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I'm gonna missed her, she was one of the first person I knew in the other forum. Rest in peace sweety
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RiriPandaHeart2 · Sun Aug 13, 2017 5:52 pm

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I didn't know her personally outside of her posts in this forum, but I do remember reading and appreciating her posts when she still posted. And of course her signature was very distinctive and memorable. May she rest in peace. :(
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human · Sun Aug 13, 2017 5:53 pm

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RIP SweetMM, I was so very sad to hear this. I'd seen her around the community both here and on GG from the very start of my involvement with it. Sending my warmest regards to her loved ones at this time

lilMango · Sun Aug 13, 2017 5:59 pm

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Although I didn't know her personally, the mark she's made on this community affects everyone and I'll miss her. She means a lot to us here. Rest in peace, sweetmm
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Kathrynxjane · Sun Aug 13, 2017 6:13 pm

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What a shock. She was always so nice to me here and on twitter. One of the first people I spoke to back on GG.
She will be missed dearly . Love to all her family and friends. Rest in peace.
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realeyesrealize · Sun Aug 13, 2017 6:26 pm

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Rest in peace, lovely. You will be missed dearly

Catallena · Sun Aug 13, 2017 6:39 pm

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Awful to hear :( Didn't know her well at all, but she was very nice and was a real presence on IDB. She'll definitely be missed. Rest in peace
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Anonymousse · Sun Aug 13, 2017 7:20 pm

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I'm so sorry, I don't really know what to say.

Thank you sweetmm for the wonderful bants and contributions, and thank you jesp for informing us about this.
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SquishPhan · Sun Aug 13, 2017 7:25 pm

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Wow this is shocking and sad news. She is definitely missed.
Rest In Peace sweetmm.

bluntedclaws · Sun Aug 13, 2017 8:01 pm

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That's very sad news. She seemed like such a lovely person and contributed much to this forum.
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DryCereal · Sun Aug 13, 2017 8:07 pm

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RIP sweetmm. We'll miss you lovely.
If anyone is in contact with her irl peeps, please do pass on our condolences and that we'll miss her here
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rizzo · Mon Aug 14, 2017 12:22 am

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Such sad news to hear. :( She was such a recognizable personality both on here and GG and I remember her and her posts vividly.

She will very much be missed. <3

Ablissa · Mon Aug 14, 2017 12:57 am

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I am so sorry to hear this :( I didn't know her, but I enjoyed reading her posts so much and she was definitely a lovely person who contributed a lot to this community.
Rest in peace, you will be very missed. :(

lefthandedism · Mon Aug 14, 2017 1:03 am

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I unfortunately didn't know sweetmm, but I certainly knew her presence here, and I'm very sad to know she is no longer here to share bants with us. I will miss her and my thoughts are with her family and friends.
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confusedpanda · Mon Aug 14, 2017 1:59 am

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While I didn't know sweetmm personally or even talked to her, I always remembered her posts on here. I remember lurking on gg long ago, she was one of the first names I constantly recognized and remembered. <3 Rest In Peace sweetmm, you'll always be remembered and missed.
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howarethelads · Mon Aug 14, 2017 2:06 am

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Rest in peace sweetmm. My heart goes out to her loved ones during this difficult time <3

Lain · Mon Aug 14, 2017 2:33 am

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Thoughts are with her family and friends. I did not know her well, but like many I did appreciate her posts on GG, IDB, and also through a few casual dm's. A kind person.
So glad this thread exists to preserve and celebrate her presence in this community.
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fringechecks · Mon Aug 14, 2017 4:48 am

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It'll always shock me to hear someone that I never knew personally but know of online has passed away. I hope that her family and friends are okay, and that she rests in peace. She contributed many things and I hope she rests in peace.
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kay · Mon Aug 14, 2017 5:23 am

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oh no, how awful. she was such a kind person. a big presence here and in GG days, that zayn clip from face swap will always remind me of her too! I hope she's in a place with no more pain or suffering. rest in peace friend.

pilotlight · Mon Aug 14, 2017 6:49 am

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Oh no, that's so sad. :( I don't think I ever talk to her directly but I remember her posts from when I lurked on GG and here. She always seemed so kind, she definitely left an impression. I hope her loved ones are doing okay.

000dia000 · Mon Aug 14, 2017 8:16 am

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I'm really sad to hear this, I just wanted to say sorry to anybody that knew them and that my thoughts are with sweetmm and their family.
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